Chix Journal


Coming back strong after breast cancer.
Keep going -- the pain is only temporary.
A little help from my friends
– by Stephanie on 06/07/2012
Chix Journal

This last weekend I decided to run the San Diego Half Marathon with some of my friends. It was two weeks after Ironman Texas, and except for some lingering fatigue, I have been feeling pretty good…well, except for the almost no training part.

It sounded like a good way to spend the weekend with friends on a road trip and run a race that would be in amazing weather on an interesting course. Who wouldn’t want to be able to run on an expressway? I have still been in a bit of a funk and the post Ironman race blues (which are always a pain) don’t seem to be helping any. It never dawned on me that I probably should have taken more than two weeks before going out to run a half that seemed to have a lot of challenging sections to it.

The trip was amazing on so many levels. My fellow LUNA Chix Tabitha and her husband volunteered to watch my pup and he got to spend the entire weekend swimming. I swear he is part seal.

I had a fun road trip to San Diego, leaving behind 112-degree heat for a beautiful overcast weekend of cool weather and mild humidity. And even better, I got to hear one of my triathlon heroes, Chrissie Wellington, talk about her career and then get a brief chat with her at her book signing. All this was before we even got to race day.

The best part of this weekend was being able to hang out with Julia the night before and, happily, also during the race. Julia was my first triathlon friend. We met in 2009, the day before my first Ironman Arizona, when we were both lining up the day before the race, an hour before registration for the next year’s race opened. Neither of us wanted to be the first crazy person waiting in line, so we both sat off a little ways chatting about the race and what we thought it would be like, while waiting for someone to start the line. We registered, exchanged emails, and then went on our way. The next morning, in the crowd of a couple thousand people, I ran into her as I was wandering around dazed and nervous waiting for the time to put on my wetsuit. We happily hung out race morning, chatting and keeping each other focused, sharing nervous energy. The next morning, I ran into her mom in the finishers store line and we hung out until we could start shopping. It was like we were meant to be friends and fate was just nudging us in that direction, giving plenty of opportunities for us to figure it out. Whenever I am in the San Diego area I try to make sure to visit and this was no exception. Luckily, this time, I convinced her to sign up for the race as well and come have some girl time.

Race morning, we met up with Ichha and Brady (the couple I drove in with) and headed to the shuttles. Both of them were looking to run this course fast, but were relaxed and ready to have some fun on the way to find parking. I had not even looked at the course and on the way to the start was grateful that Brady had shared some tips about the climb in the middle of the race.

Julia decided that she would start with me and maybe just run with me during the race which sounded like the perfect idea. After many adventures in the porta potty lines, including some harassment of people who seemed to enjoy being in the blue box a little too much, we went and found our corral and waited to start. There were so many people; it was insane to be in such a huge crowd waiting to get going. Once we started, I kept an easy pace and felt really good. I know that we were running slowly for her, but Julia stayed with me and we chatted almost the whole time.

I felt amazing, mentally and physically up until about mile 5, when the road started to have a lot of slant and we started up the hill. Suddenly I went from perky and amazing to tired and a little sluggish. I had to start taking walk breaks and realized that this was going to be a very long half. Once I accepted that this would be a slow going day, I started to pay more attention to the other runners going by, the marathoners on the other side of the road, the bands and the scenery. Even though I felt spent, I realized I was having a really good time.

Julia and I talked the whole way. I knew running the freeway would be fun, but I couldn’t have guessed that it would feel so amazing under these huge, and sometimes beautiful bridges, and running next to some really lovely scenery (it’s literally the scenic route through the area). The bands were amazing and the weather was nice, no sun, but enough humidity that I was wringing water out of my hair. Even for this being my slowest half marathon ever, I was pushing myself hard to keep going, and I know that I could not have given any more to this event. It was fun to see the finish and make sure we crossed together; the finishers’ pic should be pretty funny.

For an event away from home, the course felt like it was full of familiar faces. I got to see Kathy (a fellow Luna Chix on her way to an amazing 12 minute PR), Rodney (the husband of Renee another Luna Chix running an amazing half) and at the finish I even found Renee happily celebrating finishing another half marathon herself.  It’s inspiring to know so many people who can push themselves to go a little faster or a little farther than they thought they could…including the couple I came up with who had impressive results, even if they did not hit their goal pace.

For me, this race ended up having nothing to do with trying to run fast, but had everything to do with spending time with friends and celebrating being healthy enough to do a half marathon two weeks after Texas.  It was the perfect way to spend Cancer Survivors Day and it reminded me how lucky we all are to be able to do such amazing things in beautiful places.

Over the past couple of weeks in this blog I have acknowledged that I was having a hard time working through some things, but I think I was still just trying to keep busy enough to ignore it. This last weekend offered me some time to realize that I have dealt with a lot of losses in my life over the past five years, and that even though I was saying I was accepting that fate had something different in mind for me, I was being resistant and stubborn about it still. It’s hard to enjoy the things that you do have when you focus too much on what you think you have lost, and I have been dwelling too much, even without realizing I was doing it.

I have always believed that the word survivor has to mean more than just making it through and I am usually pretty good at trying to embrace what comes. Guess it’s time for me to remember that a little more often. Not hard to do after weekends like this. 

Tags: Run, Running


About Me

At 35, I was diagnosed with breast cancer -- with no family history, risk factors or warning. Over the next 18 months, I weathered multiple surgeries, chemotherapy, radiation, and the end of my marriage. When I thought I'd lost everything that mattered, staying active kept me going. I finished my first Ironman triathlon two months after the end of my treatment. Even more important, the friends I made while training helped me see that I am not alone, and today my life is better than I ever thought possible. Whatever new challenges await, I'm ready!

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Quick Tip

Join a group, stay motivated.

We’re all in this fitness thing together. One surefire way to stay motivated is to work out with a friend or join a group, like a local team LUNA Chix, that meets to run, cycle, swim, whatever. Not only is more fun to exercise with some pals, it also gives you a sense of obligation to get your butt out the door on even the nastiest days.

Drinking while cycling.

When you’re on the bike, 12 ounces of water every half hour is a good rule of thumb, so make sure your bike has room for a couple of bottles. For longer rides where you’re not planning to stop (woo hoo!) you’ll want to kick your gear investment up a notch with a large hydration pack.

For long races, change is not good.

For an endurance race like a triathlon, fueling well is essential, but DON’T eat or drink anything during the race that you haven’t already practiced with during your training. Think of long training sessions as “race simulations” for your fuel plan on the big day. This will help you avoid indigestion and “potty issues”.

Triathlon fashion tips.

While having a lot of clothing options is great for a weekend in Vegas, in a triathlon you really want to shoot for something you can wear throughout the race to make transitions as easy as possible. Tops and shorts specifically designed for triathlons are a great choice—they’re made to go into the water, on the bike, etc. 

To clip, or not to clip…

Clip in pedals are a better choice for power efficiency, but they can be a bit intimidating for newbies. Go with flat if you are really uncomfortable, you can always switch to a clip in pedal later. If you do get clips, it should only take a few rides to master how to quickly twist your foot out.

Turbo charge your run.

If you always practice at the same pace, you’ll always run at the same pace. You need to do intervals if you want to get faster. Start with 30 seconds hard every five minutes and work your way up to five minutes hard and five minutes easy. Play AC/DC, Jack Johnson, AC/DC, Jack Johnson…

Running requires patience.

If you are really new and running doesn’t come naturally to you (and really, it doesn’t come naturally for most of us!) start with a combination of running and walking. Run for four minutes, walk for one. Keep repeating this until you get to 30 minutes and then add in longer phases of running the next time you work out.

Building endurance for a triathlon.

If you are ready to try a tri, each week of training you’ll want to do one longer workout in each sport, to build up your endurance.

Be kind to your knees.

Running on dirt trails provides the best cushion. Concrete is the worst because there’s no shock absorption. Asphalt is somewhere in the middle. Choose wisely if you have problems with your knees.

Running cadence.

85-90 leg strikes per minute (count on one leg) is what you want to aim for to work on improving your running speed and time.

Be a stronger swimmer.

To improve your swim performance, practice rotating from the hips, and dragging your fingertips on the recovery. Use a kickboard to focus on strengthening your leg. A pull buoy and paddles can help you work on your arms.

Land with your foot flat.

If you land on your heel when you run, you’ll put a lot of strain on your knees. Landing on your toes strains your calves. Land with your foot flat, and more importantly, land it under your body for good momentum and shock absorption.

Let’s get this (cycling) party started!

Looking for a group to ride with? If there’s local LUNA Chix team in your area, you’ve already found a great way to connect with other women who ride. You can also find out about groups at your local bike shop, in cycling magazines, or just ask other cyclists—they usually know.

Glide out of your wet suit.

Wet suits can leave nasty hickey burns on your neck, and really, who wants to explain that? Before a long swim, lather your neck and ankles with Body Glide and you’ll be much more comfortable while swimming and get your suit off with ease. Plus, you won’t have to show up at work the next day looking like you’ve been mauled by a vampire.

Sign up.

Another great way to stay motivated?  Enter an event. Whether it’s a charity ride for a cause you really care about or a competitive race, having a goal to work towards can really give you that extra push to pull on your workout gear and go.

Riding with turtles and hares.

Whether fast or slow, ride with people you know! It’s more fun that way. Fast friends will push you a bit more, which is great if you’re prepping for a race, and you can draft off them on big climbs. If you’re the quick one, get out in front and give your less experienced friends a break!


Have you checked your tire pressure and brakes? Did you give your bike the once over to make sure nothing’s cracked or otherwise out of whack? OK, now you can go.

Chasing those elusive zzzz’s.

Hard-core trainers will tell you that 8-10 hours of sleep a night, plus a daily nap, is optimal while training for a big race. Back in the real world, those of us with busy jobs or little kids can only dream about this much. Shoot for as many hours as you can and stick with a consistent schedule—quality rest will help your muscles repair and protect your immune system.

If your knees are sore after a ride…

It could be that your saddle is too low. Try putting your saddle at a height where your knee is soft, but not locked at 6 o’clock.

Cycling time, optimized.

If you have an hour or less and want a good cycling workout, crank it, sister! You can go high intensity by hitting steep hills hard or by going out with a riding group that challenges you speed-wise and hanging on as long as you can. If you’re feeling really feisty, get out in front and “take pulls” every chance you get. Just don’t forget to warm up for 15 minutes first.

Keep those hands where they belong.

On your bike’s handlebars. Road cyclists don’t use hand signals much, aside from pointing out hazards like potholes or rocks. It’s also polite to indicate a turnoff. Otherwise, give a yell if a car is coming or if there’s a need for a quick stop.

Let your bike do the work.

When riding off road, your bike should be moving more than your body. And unlike road cycling, you’ll need to use your upper body as much as your legs to absorb those bumps. And don’t forget to look ahead… that way your body will have a chance to anticipate changes in the terrain, like that tree.

Recovery rocks!

Tired muscles need a little TLC. Massage is great as a recovery aid, and working out extra hard is the perfect excuse to indulge. Yoga is also wonderful for increasing flexibility and focus. Distance runners can benefit from 8-10 minutes in an ice bath. If you are brave enough to take the plunge, have a tall Starbucks on hand.   

Say no to saddle sores.

Think only cowboys get saddle sores? Nope, they’re also a problem for cyclists. Finding the right bike saddle can help, but if you ride long enough, you’re occasionally going to end up with a sore butt. A good chamois cream can help soothe those sores, but many bikers swear by a cow utter cream called Bag Balm. Who cares as long as it works!

Getting drafty.

Cyclists are drafting when they line up behind one another to conserve energy. The rider in front breaks the headwind, those behind get a break. Mastering this move can be tricky: the closer you ride to the person in front, the better the draft, but you also risk a pile-up! While learning, stay at least three feet away from the tire ahead.

Building tri strength with “bricks”.

A “brick” is a workout where one activity is directly followed by another (a bike ride + run, for example.) Training this way 1-2 times a week is a great way to gear up for a triathlon.

New to the dirt?

Go out on easy unpaved roads or wide fire trails with a more experienced friend who can show you the ropes. Relax your arms and legs, and let the bike do the rest.  And remember, there’s no shame in getting off and walking for a stretch if the terrain gets hairy.

Dust off that road bike.

Been a few years since you’ve cycled on the road? Before snapping on your helmet, take your bike to a local shop for a safety tune up. At minimum, have them check tire pressure, brakes, the chainring and gear shifts to make sure everything works and that all connections are snug. Now you can feel the wind on your face without worrying about your brakes giving out!

Shape up for cycling.

A hour long ride once or twice a week is just about right for a beginner looking to get her legs (and butt!) in cycling shape. And if you want to enjoy that post-ride high all day, set your alarm and head on out there when the sun is coming up. 

Climbing with conviction.

Positioning yourself for a big climb can be tricky. Common mistakes are leaning too far forward, putting too much weight in the hands, and straining your quads. Lean back a bit so you’re centered over the saddle, let your glutes and hamstrings do some of the work, and go easy on those handlebars.

Aching arches in the morning?

Most likely it’s Plantar Fasciitis—an inflammation of the tissue along the bottom of the foot that connects the heel bone to the toes. Caused by increasing your running volume too quickly, bad shoes, or poor foot mechanics, this annoying injury requires some TLC, ASAP.  Slow down for a few days, do some stretches and apply ice. And see a doctor if there’s no improvement. 

Training for open water.

There’s no black guideline in the ocean. To prepare for an open water swim, practice in the pool with your eyes closed. (No cheating!)

Surviving the inevitable tumble.

If you mountain bike long enough, there will come a time when you will dismount and tumble unexpectedly. The good news is that most crashes happen at low speeds, either when clipping out or on switchbacks. But if you are really moving, let go of the bike, tuck your arms and legs into your chest and try to “roll” with one shoulder in and your back to the ground.

Pain while running means one thing: STOP.

A mild pain can turn into a major injury over the course of a single run, so listen up when your body says “ouch!” Most problems can be alleviated with a few days rest. If you still feel bad after taking a break, it’s time to call the doc.

Time to go shoe shopping.

Running 300-500 miles is the perfect excuse for a new pair of shoes! Once you’ve gone that far, they lose their support, shock absorption and the wear can mess with your foot biomechanics. Might as well throw in those new wedge sandals too—you’ve earned them.

Lycra or baggie shorts?

Well, that depends on whether you are casual girl at heart or like showing off that booty! Some mountain bikers like the non-racey, looser look of baggie shorts off road, but there is one caveat: when you are bouncing around coming downhill, they can get stuck on your seat.

Try a bike ride.

When giving cycling a try, the objective is fun! Borrow a bike, keep it under an hour and don’t let your Lance-obsessed neighbor talk you into some crazy 100-mile loop. Bring a helmet, water and LUNA Bar in case your energy flags. Also important: a portable pump, tube and repair kit for flats that hopefully the more experienced friend you’ve invited along knows how to use.

Cycling chic.

Beyond the obvious helmet, no cycling woman’s wardrobe is complete without a pair of tush-friendly chamois shorts, a lycra jersey, gloves and sunglasses to deflect bugs. Any kind of soft-soled athletic shoe will work for flat pedals, but cleats are a must if you clip in. A light jacket is a great accessory for colder climates, as is a safety light when riding after dark.

Stop that stitch!

While the cause of the always-annoying side stitch is up for debate, deep, full belly breathing can help chase it away. Namaste!

Buying a mountain bike?

Before hitting the shop, ask yourself how you want to ride. If you just want to have some weekend fun in the dirt, a bike with full suspension will ensure maximum comfort off road. A more light-weight cross country bike is best for climbing and racing. And if you like tearing it up in the mud, disc brakes are must!

A bike that fits.

Like your favorite black bra, a bike performs best when it’s fitted specifically for your body type. Many pro shops offer this service, so check in with your favorite local outfit to find someone who can take measurements and help make the proper adjustments to your bike.

Saddle up your bike.

Just like a too-soft mattress can be bad for your back, a too-cushy bike saddle can be bad for your butt. Flat and slightly wide is best, with a women-specific slot up the middle. (Trust us on this one—you’ll be thankful.) It doesn’t hurt to check out what the pros use—they definitely put their tushies to the test! 

Tart up your transition towel.

Triathlon transitions can slow you down big time if you’re wandering around like a doof looking for your stuff. Buy the loudest, brightest towel you can find (think 80s neon) and park your gear near an obvious signpost in the transition area. Even if your mind is still rehashing your last leg, you’ll be able to transition quick. 

Ah, the simplicity of running gear…

Not much is needed to get up and running. Good shoes are essential, of course, and a running specialty store can help you with the best fit for your foot type. You also might want some socks, shorts and tops that can help wick away sweat to keep you cool. Add one iPod for cool tunes.

Fueling for a ride.

Carbs are what you want—about 30-60 grams of carbs per hour, depending on your weight and pace. This can either be in solid or liquid form (try a LUNA Bar or some Clif Shots) but be sure to eat before you are hungry. Forgetting to fuel means you’ll run out of gas mid-ride and have to call your roommate to come pick you up in her car. Embarrassing.